After 29 years of being alive and 11 years of living away from home I wonder whether I will be able to give up the singledom I have been enjoying so far and get married? What does 'enjoying singledom' mean? Coming back from work anytime I feel like. Eating what I want to eat. If I feel like cooking I cook. If i don't feel like, I don't. Doing what I want to do in spare time. Read a novel. Go for a movie. Go for a stroll. Go shopping. Or just sleep for hours. Spend my money the way I want to. On myself or my loved ones. Wear what I like or what I feel suits me. My room is 'my space'. Once I shut the door, I am cut-off from the 'outside world'. The 'outside world' can influence 'my space' only with my permission. If I feel like staying alone, I lock myself in my room for hours and days. If I don't feel like talking, I can do that. The list can be lengthened more. In a nutshell, enjoying singledom means 'doing what I feel like, when